20 questions

1. Where were you 3 hours ago?
",house

2. Who are you in love with?
", ahm... kai crush??

3. Have you ever eaten a crayon?
", naaah!!

4. Is there anything pink within 10 feet of you?
", naaah!!

5. When is the last time you went to the mall?
", 4 days ago

6. Are you wearing socks right now?
", noe

7. Have you been to the movies in the last 5 days?
", naaah!!

8. Are you hot?
",naaah!!

9. What was the last thing you had to drink?
", softdrinks

10. What are you wearing right now?
", t-shirt and shorts

11. Do you wash your car or let the car wash do it?
", naaah!!

12. Last food that you ate?
", fruits ihh!

13. Where were you last week at this time?
", school and at the mall.

14. Have you bought any clothing items in the last week?
", yea.

15. When is the last time you ran?
", 2 days ago. bcoz of the amazing race. :]]

16. What's the last sporting event you watched?
", basketball in our school.. LOL!! [intrams]

17. What is your favorite animal?
", rabbit?? en puppy :]]

18. Last person's house you were in?
", Harl, my classmate

19. Have you been in love?
", HELL yea!!

20. Do you miss anyone right now?
", yea.yea [mhyn??] [partner??]

Mr. Right

Being a hopeless romantic at heart and a girl in every sense of the word. An ideal guy for me is someone who challenges my wit in a gentle way, who enjoys long conversations about anything under the sun, who appreciates even the smallest of things and that would include a walk by the beach, and an appreciation of nature.

Someone who shares my interests, who listens when needed but is never afraid to speak his mind. Someone whose patience is expandable given my very child-like behavior, who has the initiative and the insight to see to tell what could have been wrong and most of all someone who is my bestfriend first before he becomes my boyfriend.

Ive been told am way too idealistic and too classic, but honestly candlelit dinners are nice but they're not my thing, conciertos are elegant but they're not for me. A single rose will do what matters is the sincerity behind the words.

Waiting for Mr. Right.... ??

Does Mr. Right exist? Is he out there somewhere? Will I find him?

Mr. Right is a key subject for many women and an inspiration of hope on a daily basis. Yes he may well exist, yes he is probably out there and yes you WILL find him! Of course in all our lives we have goals, aims, ambitions and desires small and large. It is these landmarks and goalposts that keep us positive and busy. It is what makes us human. In recent years the terms Mr. Right and Miss Right have become over used and devalued. Almost as if we have a chart on our wall , an extensive tick list, a resume of specifics that the person in question must submit to get his foot through the door of the "potentials" interview.

Most of us would deny we are that bad and hope that chance will take a hand in bringing Mr. Right to us. Yes we accept that we have a small but insignificant "list" and yes we accept that there are some 'definites' on it which are nonnegotiable, but they are fairly minor. Or are they? The fact of the matter is that as the decades have passed by, we have become far more sophisticated, as humans, as individuals, as lovers and mates. We know how to orgasm, we have a good salary and a nice home and are well educated in the ways of the world. Therefore it is only fair that we seek someone to match, to fit in, to adapt, to accompany, to facilitate. And there lays the issue.

The fact is that Mr. Right also has a tick list, an agenda, only a small one of course, but a list all the same, and he is ticking off your assets as we speak. He wants someone young, someone well educated, someone good looking and in shape. We are indignant, how shallow we cry. Typical man we sigh. Yet are we any better? Look at your list and look very carefully at what or who constitutes your Mr. Right. And then look again. Are you sure first of all that your tick list is achievable? Yes, or are you willing to negotiate? Okay so you are happy with your list. Then what?

Well now, are you willing to go out and get your Mr. Right or are you waiting for him to come to you? Many women tell me they are waiting for Mr. Right. The word "waiting" concerns me. By waiting it means men come to you by chance, perhaps by design and you tick off their assets, your check them out and then cast off anyone who doesn't match your list. Maybe you do, but remember this my friends, Mr. Right is looking for his Miss Right? How much work have you put into being Miss Right or should he accept you as you are and fit in around you? If he did slot in to your life would he really be Mr. Right or an accouterment, an asset, a trinket that you would get bored of?

The thing I am asked by eligible men more than anything these days is, "where have all the nice girls gone". Think about those words carefully. These men are not asking where the doormats went, the punch bags, the housewife slaves. Not at all. No what they are asking is where all the women went who don't have a huge checklist as long as their admittedly muscular arms. Most men simply want someone to love, someone who they can dote on in their own ways and who they can feel special and share with. The problem for them is that they are not finding it because they are constantly under 'resume-pressure'. They are told they must adapt and fit in, they are trying to fulfill their part of the list bargain and then they are faced with the Miss Rights out there.

As a potential Miss Right you owe it to yourself to complete a few tasks. Take a long hard look at your list and ask yourself exactly how flexible you are being. Secondly look at who your Mr. Right is and how truthfully obtainable they are. Thirdly, don't kid yourself about your own potentials but don't compromise on ideals either. Fourthly, bring yourself out into the open and go after your Mr. Right.

Don't play the waiting game because you do not want to spend the rest of your life knowing your Mr. Perfect is married to someone else when he could have been yours. And finally, compromise is the key in reality, for all the things Mr. right must be, try and balance that with attempting to be something your Mr. Right doesn't want to miss.

Internet Addiction

Ten years ago, the only people who spent a majority of their leisure time on the computer were paid members of the technology industry. Today, however, surfing the Web has become a pastime as social and marketable as bar hopping or going to the movies. As the web has become a part of mainstream life, some mental health professionals have noted that a percentage of people using the web do so in a compulsive and out-of-control manner. In one extreme (1997) Cincinnati case, unemployed mother Sandra Hacker allegedly spent over 12 hours a day secluded from her three young and neglected children while she surfed the Web. For better or for worse, this phenomena of compulsive Internet use has been termed 'Internet Addiction' based on its superficial similarity to common addictions such as smoking, drinking, and gambling. Internet Addiction has even been championed as an actual disorder, notably by psychologists Kimberly Young, Ph.D and David Greenfield, Ph.D.. However, at this time the true nature of Internet Addiction is not yet determined.

In a true addiction, a person becomes compulsively dependent upon a particular kind of stimulation to the point where obtaining a steady supply of that stimulation becomes the sole and central focus of their lives. The addict increasingly neglects his work duties, relationships and ultimately even his health in his drive to remain stimulated. In some cases of addiction (such as addiction to alcohol or to heroin), a phenomenon known as tolerance occurs, wherein more and more stimulation is required to produce the same pleasurable effect. A related phenomena, withdrawal, can also occur, wherein the addicted person comes to be dependent upon their source of stimulation and experiences dramatically unpleasant (and even potentially lethal -- as can be the case with alcohol) reactions when he goes without it. Sources of addictive stimulation can be chemical (as is the case with addictive drugs such as alcohol, cocaine, nicotine and heroin), sensual (as in sex) or even informational (as in gambling or workaholism). What all sources of addictive stimulation have in common is that they provoke a strong, usually positive (at first) reaction in the potential addict, who then seeks out the source of that stimulation so as to obtain that feeling on a regular basis.

nguguluhan na ko!!

naguguluhan talga ko sa nararamdaman ko now.. matagal na ring nanahimik ang puso ko pero parang naguguluhan na nman.. naguguluhan pati ang isip ko.. ayoko na... nung time na nahimik ang puso ko.. hindi ko kaagad yon naramdaman pero xempre parang mai nagbago kaya napansin ko na rin.. naging masaya ako nun kasi walang iniisip at walang problema.. pero ngayon parang iniisip ko na ayoko ng manahimik pa yon pero kung hindi ko nman ptthimikin ang puso ko bka naman magkaproblema n nman ako at kung ano n nmang mangyari sakin.. aun.aun.. hanggang nayon naguguluhan ako.. lagi ko na lang naiisip yon.. bakit sa tuwing yon ang pinag uusapan prang ang hirap dalhin ng problemang yon.. haixt!! God Bless xieL..

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antagal ko na ring ndi nkkpagsulat dito sa blog.. almost 1 month na ata.. naging sobrang busy sa studz ihh.. sunud-sunod ang mga requirements at exams.. aun!! sa sobrang busy, hindi ko na rin ngwang magpasarap.. hehe.. pati un na rin ang naging dahilan kaya tinamad na rin akong mag0L at mag net.. mejo nasanay na rin akong di humarap sa PC.. napagod na rin ata ako at nasawa.. hindi ko na tuloi nauupdate ang aking blogsite.. pero nakabuti na rin toh skin dahil mahirap rin namang maging adik ulit sa net.. hehe.. nkksma 'yon.. hehe.. aun lang..